date like a man...?

A fellow blogger "mel" left me a comment the other day ... "date like a man so u don't get played like a bitch"... and i knew what she meant, but it just seems hard to do when a man doesnt use his heart in the process at all.. Most the women i know are emotional and expressive and wear their heart on their sleeve.... But really, where else would you wear that muscle? Certainly not in the place it belongs, (in your chest) - oh no. We live in Florida the 2nd biggest saline implant state in the world and they take up all the space in that region.

wtf is wrong with us that we cant find room in our chest to leave the heart where it belongs? I don't have relationship issues uprooted from a childhood of not enough attention. Hell I'm an only child- the golden child at that. It's not even attention i need- i get plenty. Maybe some people are meant to be single. ( and keep your jokes to yourself- i will NEVER own cats! )I find that for most females trust can be hard to grasp so you can often shelter that aspect of a relationship. But once u finally open up and finally give a guy a real shot- its like the thrill of the chase for them is gone, and suddenly your not that hard to get girl anymore. You are the girl who could potentially care for them, Potentially be there girlfriend, potentially one day fall in love with them. I see great positives in this: Falling in love and falling for someone in general. I don't understand why so many men run from that possibility.why is it that we as women - have to play "the game" in order to keep you interested? doesn't the game ever bore you?( it bores the hell out of me). Not to mention it becomes stressful, and STUPID. At what age or time will a man really be okay with the chase being over and the true contentment of knowing he doesn't have to chase you anymore- your in His living room, watching HIS TV, cuddled up with him on HIS couch. Here's some food for thought guys.. their are plenty of other couches out there